Bhaiya jab se aap ko sunna shuru ki hu kaafi maturity aai hai aur life mein strong bani hu.... Confidence ho depression ho ya man ko halka karna ho you always there... Par bhaiya mere man mein ek baat atak gai hai kaise samjaau kud ko aur kitne baar samjhaau kud ko.. Baat ye hai ki mujhe dar lagta hai jab mein apne aap ko logo ke saamne express karti ki kahi wo mujhe judge toh nhi kar rahe ghamndi toh nhi samjh rahe...Ye darr ke karan mein apne aap ko khol aur confident nhi feel kar paati mein apne aap ko samjhaati v hu aapke kai video ne help kiya hai lekin bhaiya jab bolti hu toh phir wahi khayaal aa jaate hai bhaiya kaise isko mein premanently hata du ki ye thought hi mere man mein naa ayePlease bhaiya reply kariyega nhi toh koi video suggest jaroor kariyega ya kuch hint
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Bhaiya jab se aap ko sunna shuru ki hu kaafi maturity aai hai aur life mein strong bani hu.... Confidence ho depression ho ya man ko halka karna ho you always there... Par bhaiya mere man mein ek baat atak gai hai kaise samjaau kud ko aur kitne baar samjhaau kud ko.. Baat ye hai ki mujhe dar lagta hai jab mein apne aap ko logo ke saamne express karti ki kahi wo mujhe judge toh nhi kar rahe ghamndi toh nhi samjh rahe...Ye darr ke karan mein apne aap ko khol aur confident nhi feel kar paati mein apne aap ko samjhaati v hu aapke kai video ne help kiya hai lekin bhaiya jab bolti hu toh phir wahi khayaal aa jaate hai bhaiya kaise isko mein premanently hata du ki ye thought hi mere man mein naa ayePlease bhaiya reply kariyega nhi toh koi video suggest jaroor kariyega ya kuch hint
Solution
Aapka darr samajhne mein samay nahi lagega. Sabse pehle, aapko samajhna hoga ki logon ka aapko judge karna ya galat samajhna unki soch ka parichay deta hai, na ki aapki. Har vyakti apne nazariye se duniya ko dekhta hai. Agar koi aapko galat samajhta hai, toh yeh unki soch ki kami hai, na ki aapki.
Dusra, aapko yeh samajhna hoga ki aapka mulya kisi ke ray ya vichar se nahi badalta. Aap jo hai, wohi hai, chahe log aapko kaise bhi dekhe ya samjhe. Aapka mulya aapke andar hai, na ki kisi ke vichar mein.
Tisra, aapko apne aap ko pyar karna sikhe. Jab aap apne aap se pyar karte hai, toh aapko kisi aur ki manjuri ki zarurat nahi hoti. Aap apne aap ko accept kar lete hai, aapki strengths aur weaknesses ke saath.
Chautha, aapko yeh samajhna hoga ki har kisi ka ray important nahi hota. Kuch logon ka ray matter karta hai, jaise aapke parivar ya dosto ka. Lekin agar koi anjaan vyakti aapko judge karta hai, toh uska ray aapke liye mahatvapurn nahi hona chahiye.
Aapko yeh sab baatein apne aap ko baar baar yaad dilani hogi. Yeh ek raat mein nahi hoga, lekin dheere dheere aap is darr se mukti pa sakte hai. Aapko apne aap par vishwas karna hoga aur apne aap ko samajhna hoga. Aap yeh kar sakte hai.
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