Sir bhut pershan hu sir mere bua ka ladka h muje usko dekh er pata nhi itna attraction hone lagta h uski awaz sunker hoga wo itna attraction kiyo horha h uske sath jb se unke ghr me rehker ayi tb se attraction q ho rha h sir kiya horha h

Aap jo mehsoos kar rahe hain, woh shayad aapke bua ke ladke ke prati aakarshan ho sakta hai. Yeh ek natural feeling hai jo kisi ke saath bhi ho sakti hai. Lekin, yeh zaroori hai ki aap is situation ko samajhne ki koshish karein.

1. Pehle, aapko yeh samajhna hoga ki kya yeh sirf ek attraction hai ya phir aap usse pyaar karne lage hain. Dono mein farq hota hai. Attraction kisi ke prati aakarshan hota hai, jabki pyaar ek gehri bhavna hoti hai.

2. Agar aapko lagta hai ki yeh sirf attraction hai, toh shayad yeh samay ke saath apne aap hi khatam ho jaye. Lekin, agar aapko lagta hai ki yeh pyaar hai, toh aapko iske baare mein sochna hoga.

3. Aapko yeh bhi samajhna hoga ki aapke bua ke ladke ke prati aapki feelings kya hain. Kya woh bhi aapke prati waise hi mehsoos karte hain? Agar nahi, toh aapko apni feelings ko control karna hoga.

4. Agar aapko lagta hai ki aap is situation se deal nahi kar pa rahe hain, toh aap kisi visheshagya ya counselor se baat kar sakte hain. Woh aapko is situation se deal karne mein madad kar sakte hain.

5. Sabse zaroori baat, aapko apne aap ko kisi bhi tarah ki guilt ya sharm se dur rakhna hoga. Yeh natural feelings hain aur ismein galat kuch bhi nahi hai. Lekin, hamesha yaad rakhein ki aapki actions aapki responsibility hain.