im an empowered and independent girl who speaks her mind and i was told that boys like submissive and obedient girls they can dominate so i wont be able to get a boyfriend funny thing is many boys like me this way they like the fact that im hard working and dont let boys rule me. so ive been able to get many boys ask me out wanting to be my boyfriend compared to my female counterparts who are humble and do what boys tell them so why is that

The idea that all boys prefer submissive and obedient girls is a stereotype and not necessarily true. People are attracted to a wide variety of personality traits, and confidence and independence are traits that many people find attractive, regardless of gender.

It's also important to note that relationships should not be about dominance and submission, but about mutual respect and equality. A healthy relationship involves both partners having their own voice and being able to express their thoughts and feelings.

The boys who are attracted to you likely appreciate your confidence, independence, and the respect you demand. They may find these qualities refreshing and attractive, compared to the traditional stereotypes of submissive women.

In conclusion, everyone has their own preferences and what attracts them can vary greatly. It's always best to be true to yourself and not change who you are just to fit someone else's ideal.