Hi Sir,I would like to talk to you main bahut depressed hu I am a Brahmin girl and belong to the type of family with false prideI have a boyfriend of lower caste we both love each other are together since 5 years My parents are forcing me to leave everything just because main ek ladki hu meri zindagi koi maayne ni rkhti h unke liye sirf or sirf samaj or rishtedaar matter krte h They are really using me as a puppet to show this pakhandi society that their kid is good and will sacrifice her life for her parents and society and they do not care if i live or die Please guide me sir
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Hi Sir,I would like to talk to you main bahut depressed hu I am a Brahmin girl and belong to the type of family with false prideI have a boyfriend of lower caste we both love each other are together since 5 years My parents are forcing me to leave everything just because main ek ladki hu meri zindagi koi maayne ni rkhti h unke liye sirf or sirf samaj or rishtedaar matter krte h They are really using me as a puppet to show this pakhandi society that their kid is good and will sacrifice her life for her parents and society and they do not care if i live or die Please guide me sir
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Namaste, mujhe samajh me aata hai ki aap kis tarah ki samasyaon se guzar rahi hain. Sabse pehle, aapko apne aap ko mentally strong banana hoga. Aapko samajhna hoga ki aapki khushi bhi utni hi zaroori hai jitni ki aapke parivaar ki.
Agar aap apne boyfriend se sach me pyaar karti hain aur voh bhi aapse pyaar karte hain, toh aapko ek dusre ke saath khade rehna chahiye. Aapko apne maa-baap se is baare me baat karni chahiye. Unhe samjhaye ki aap dono ek dusre se kitna pyaar karte hain aur aap ek dusre ke bina nahi reh sakte.
Agar voh aapki baat samajhne ki koshish nahi karte, toh aapko professional help leni chahiye. Ek counselor ya psychologist se milna aapke liye accha rahega. Voh aapko is situation se deal karne me madad kar sakte hain.
Yaad rakhiye, aapki zindagi aapki hai aur aapko hi faisla karna hai ki aap kya karna chahti hain. Aapki khushi aur aapka pyaar utna hi maayne rakhta hai jitna ki kisi aur ka. Aapko apne aap ko strong banane ki zaroorat hai aur apne liye khada hona hoga.
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