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when my parents were poor i served in humility and loved my rich relatives dearly but it wasn't reciprocated so i waited patiently for the time to come when they would appreciate me but it never came once my parents became rich i stopped putting up with their mistreatment and lack of love. i realized they'll never love me and now i treat like they dont exist at all i even left the family what has caused this

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when my parents were poor i served in humility and loved my rich relatives dearly but it wasn't reciprocated so i waited patiently for the time to come when they would appreciate me but it never came once my parents became rich i stopped putting up with their mistreatment and lack of love. i realized they'll never love me and now i treat like they dont exist at all i even left the family what has caused this

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The situation you described seems to be caused by a combination of factors:

  1. Economic Status Change: Your parents' transition from being poor to rich might have changed the dynamics of your relationship with your rich relatives.

  2. Unreciprocated Efforts: You mentioned that you served in humility and loved your rich relatives dearly, but this was not reciprocated. This could have led to feelings of resentment and disappointment.

  3. Lack of Appreciation: You waited for a time when your relatives would appreciate you, but that time never came. This could have further deepened your feelings of being unvalued and unloved.

  4. Realization and Self-Preservation: Once your parents became rich, you stopped tolerating their mistreatment and lack of love. This could be a form of self-preservation, where you decided to protect yourself from further emotional harm.

  5. Decision to Cut Ties: You mentioned that you now treat them like they don't exist and have even left the family. This could be a result of the accumulated hurt and disappointment, leading you to distance yourself from them to avoid further pain.

Remember, it's important to communicate your feelings and seek professional help if needed. It's okay to distance yourself from toxic relationships, but it's also important to process your feelings and heal.

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