career or shadi hee ek aisi chiz h jo hume kisi ke force krne pe bina apne mann ke nhi karna chahiye. Career me parents ki sunn ke ki to usme bhi failure hee mile h or ab Ghar wale shaadi ke lie bhi force kar rhe h. Sir parents ko kaise smjhaye ki shadi life ka bahot bada descision hota h jo sirf ap caste dekh ke, society ki wajah se forcefully ni kar skte h. Please sir kuch guidance dijiye

sir मैं आपका vedio dekh kar depession से बाहर तो आ जाती but jab yad aata h ki parents को मेरे लिए समय नही h to rona aa jata h . sir mere dono parents job . करते । बात तक नही करते । मै introvert hu aur mera koi dost bhi nahi h . but i'm ok now . Mai aapne felling ko ek copy h sir jisko dost manti hu . usme aapni felling likhti hu .. Sir busy parents .

main bhut pareshaan ho chuki hu govt job ki prepration kr rhi khi ho nhi rha aur age bhi 30 hogyi h aur shadi bhi nhi kari job k liye aur papa ko serious health issue h isliye samjh nhi arha kya karu 1 saal aur prepartion karu job ki ya Marriage k liye family walo ko haa bol du kyuki shadi k liye papa bhut pressurise kr rhe aur ab relatives bhi papa se bolte h shadi kyu nhi kr rhe ladki ki because mere baad meri sister aur bhai h dono achi job krte h to gharwale khte tmhri wajah se unki bhi age nikl rhi shadi ki jabki unki job bhi h.but main unemployed hokr shadi nhi krna chahti

Sir meri age 26 ho chuki hai 3 4 saal se Government job paane ki koshish kar ryi hu lekin nhi mil rhi meri cchoti bahan mujhse 2 saal cchoti hai uski esi saal job lag gyi hai ab Gharwale mujhe kafi sunate hain, value nhi karte bilkul aor mujhe usse compare karte hain cchoti baato pe mummy baat karna band kar deti hain agar kabhi jbab de du to baddua dene lagti hain ki teri buri दशा hogi , apni maa ke mu se asi baate sunke jeene ka mann nhi karta jabse unhone mujhse ye baat kahi mai bhul nhi pa ryi hu , mai jyda active nhi du 4 saal phle mera boyfriend ne mujhse breakup kr liya jab uski job lgi thi mai depretion se 4 saal mi thoda bohot bahar aa payi hu 3 baar sadi ka rishta tay hoke kisi na kisi reason ki vajah se mna ho gya kyuki unko Job vali ladki chahiye mai akele in sab halato se ladte ladte thak chuki hu

Bhaiya mai 30 saal ki hu mera abhi tk na job lga hai na sadhi hui hai mai govt ki taiyari bhi krti hu but usme mera nhi ho rha hai abhi mere samne 2 vacancy ai hai vaeg 2 teacher or varg 1 teacher ki kya mai iski taiyari kru ki private job kru mujhe apni jajurto ke liye paise kmane hai

Sir mai abhi government job kr rhi hu group-d mujhe chl crack krna hai jo ki mujhe time mil nhi hai sir job chhor du ya esi mai time nikal kr padhu samajh nhi aarha please sir kuchh suggest kijiye